Changing my style. How does this sound?

I%26#039;m 19 years old, student in university, no girlfriend yet. I think it%26#039;s because of how I present myself. Personally, I don%26#039;t even know myself (MMOs ruined my life, and I am learning who I am again).





Right now I look average, this is what I%26#039;m going to do:





1. Change clothing to %26#039;casual%26#039;.. polo shirts, overall more expensive wear


2. Use a cologne, probably Aqua di Gio, Hugo, Sean Jean or something similar


3. Get professional advice on my hair style - I think it%26#039;s okay now but it can improve


4. I started working out, and in 4 months I%26#039;ll have muscles and a 6pack


5. I%26#039;m starting to take martial art classes and get more involved with sports





am I going to be fine?





Additional info: I%26#039;m not trying to be someone I%26#039;m not, I don%26#039;t know who I am that well yet. Yes I have a GREAT personality, I just have trouble showing it because right now I have the style of a dumb high school kid who uses AXE spray. I also have self confidence. Sense of humor is so-so.

Changing my style. How does this sound?
You keep adding comments when you get answers. I%26#039;m starting to think you don%26#039;t know what you want. If you have a great personality, the outside doesn%26#039;t matter as much. If there is nothing wrong with you you just have to socialize, otherwise you won%26#039;t meet girls. Simple as that.
Reply:good on ya. just try not to be sumone ur not.
Reply:I already answered this question. Stop asking.
Reply:Be yourself dont ever change ur style you should never have to change for anyone no matter who it is and always flaunt what you%26#039;ve got
Reply:Do it for you, if you think it will help you to be more comfortable with yourself then go ahead and good luck. But, don%26#039;t do it to get a girlfriend or anything because if they can%26#039;t accept you the way you are then you don%26#039;t need them. Good luck!
Reply:its okay for you to change your style but in a simple way. you don%26#039;t have to buy and wear expensive clothes and perfumes just to get notice. may best advice is just be your self and maybe in the near future someone will notice and appreciate for who you really are. cause sometimes people will just make fun of you when yoou try to change something about yourself.
Reply:All steps of your plan work toward one goal: being somebody you are not, or surrounding yourself with a fake shell.





Just be yourself; that%26#039;s all you can do. If you try to be someone else, you%26#039;ll never have relationships that are real.
Reply:If your going for the thug look then try a longsleeve shirt with an x-large t-shirt thrown on top. It doesn%26#039;t have to be anything special any color will do, but make sure the Longsleeve is either darker or lighter than the color of the t-shirt. If you want something fancy than try an Ecko t-shirt. G-UNIT or Rocawear would be my first choice in jeans, if you don%26#039;t feel like spending that much just go with a normal pair of Route 66 baggy jeans. As for the shoes I try to go with anything that matches my outfit. From Nikes to Ecko brand or even skater shoes like Adios. If your ears don%26#039;t stick out of your head to far it is nice to stick on a fitted with the brim flattened and the sticker still stuck on. I have never seen the point of wearing Sean Jean because it is expensive and it doesn%26#039;t make any difference which kind of jeans you wear as long as they match, they are baggy, and they look nice. Always make sure to choose your color scheme wisely. BTW there is nothing wrong with axe.





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%26quot;Tony%26quot;
Reply:Find yourself and go from there. That is the most important thing anyone can ever do. Start figuring yourself out, start analyzing yourself, start realizing who you truly are, and don%26#039;t hold back. The real question you need to be asking is, %26quot;How do I find myself?%26quot;, rather than a complicated version of %26quot;How can I change?%26quot; You do not need to CHANGE anything about yourself, regardless of how big or mundane it is. You only need to FIND yourself. Seek from WITHIN yourself. Everything you need to know about you is already inside you, from what hairstyle you%26#039;ll feel best in to what kind of person/job/etc. you truly desire, EVERYTHING, you%26#039;ve just got to reach for it.