Changing my style. How does this sound?

I%26#039;m 19 years old, student in university, no girlfriend yet. I think it%26#039;s because of how I present myself. Personally, I don%26#039;t even know myself (MMOs ruined my life, and I am learning who I am again).





Right now I look average, this is what I%26#039;m going to do:





1. Change clothing to %26#039;casual%26#039;.. polo shirts, overall more expensive wear


2. Use a cologne, probably Aqua di Gio, Hugo, Sean Jean or something similar


3. Get professional advice on my hair style - I think it%26#039;s okay now but it can improve


4. I started working out, and in 4 months I%26#039;ll have muscles and a 6pack


5. I%26#039;m starting to take martial art classes and get more involved with sports





am I going to be fine?





Additional info: I%26#039;m not trying to be someone I%26#039;m not, I don%26#039;t know who I am that well yet. Yes I have a great personality, I just have trouble showing it because right now I have the style of a dumb high school kid who uses AXE spray. I also have self confidence. Sense of humor is so-so.

Changing my style. How does this sound?
i answer it for a no-no!





you should be happy just the way you are. but if you%26#039;re not quite happy with yourself, you should relax yourself and do not stress yourself.





just enjoy life and nothing could go wrong. you should not be so confused because the more you get it, the more arrogant you%26#039;ll be.
Reply:Defining yourself. Cool, Honestly.


I also recommend doing Yoga Classes, It gives you self control, belief and confidence as well. In saying that aswell, there are girls who go there.


Um, try joining more communities, always help.
Reply:http://mensfashion.about.com/od/goomingh...





http://www.mens-fashion-tips.com/





Going to the gym does pay off! My friends boyfriend started going and he now has an awesome torso.





Your going to be fine!
Reply:OK, there are ways of changing your style and there are ways of changing your style and braking your wallet, so here are some tips.


1) the casual look is nice but you don%26#039;t have to get the most up to date $150 polo shirt, last season shirt and pants are ok and cost allot less. Remember it%26#039;s not the clothes it%26#039;s how you ware them. last season%26#039;s shoes are fine too. try shopping around late October early November for great deals. find colors that look good together, dark blue with Grey OK, dark blue with forest green... don%26#039;t do it!


2) cologne... careful with this one. this is a pitfall of most men, they spray on way too much. no those aren%26#039;t tears of excitement, her eyes are stinging. spray the wrist, rub them together. then spray the neck, where the neck reaches the color bone, hold spray at least 1 foot away form your body for a good mist.. ONE SPRAY IS ENOUGH. I think oils are better though, they last longer.


3) hair advice is a good idea from someone who knows what there talking about. figure out the establishment before you ask hair advice.


4) working out is great but a healthy diet is essential! remember if your looking to lose fat make sure your not consuming more than your burning.


5) your on the right track, martial arts is a great way to not only get into shape but stay in shape.





use common sense and remember that looks will get you to the door but personality carries you through. it looks like you%26#039;ll do great and good luck.
Reply:I think that what you are doing is great! Its wonderful to constantly reinvent yourself. This will boost your confidence and show how versatile you are.

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